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                        BABYSITTING CLUBS
                        by Tash Hughes of
                        Word 
                        Constructions    Although the 
                        term babysitting club implies a group of early teenage 
                        girls sitting around waiting for babysitting jobs to 
                        come in, it is actually something of use to parents! Many parents 
                        would like to have more opportunities to get out of the 
                        house together and have some adult fun. However, by 
                        the time you pay for a babysitter on top of dinner and a 
                        movie, it becomes a very expensive night out. So, 
                        unless you have a supply of family or friends willing to 
                        babysit your child(ren) for free, you tend to stay home 
                        for weeks in a row. Joining, or 
                        forming, a babysitting club instead is another option. A babysitting 
                        club is essentially a group of parents who share the 
                        babysitting between them. That is, each family earns 
                        babysitting time from the group by babysitting for other 
                        members’ children. Different groups work differently, 
                        counting points or hours or tokens, but the concept is 
                        the same. It doesn’t mean 
                        a direct swap is necessary, which is what makes it more 
                        flexible than just swapping with friends. For instance, 
                        Mary babysits Joy’s children so Joy can attend a seminar 
                        one afternoon. The following night, Joy babysits Fred 
                        and Wilma’s three children so they can have a romantic 
                        dinner out. A week later, Fred babysits Mary’s daughter 
                        so Mary can visit a friend in hospital. By removing 
                        the cost and lack of suitable people, belonging to a 
                        babysitting club can give parents some much-needed time 
                        out and support. All members of the club are known, 
                        and often are friends, so you know who is caring for 
                        your child(ren) and there is some comfort in knowing an 
                        adult is there. Some clubs even 
                        have some checks carried out before accepting new 
                        members. Most babysitting 
                        clubs cater for night babysitting, but daytime sessions 
                        are unlikely to be excluded. This can make them harder 
                        to access for single parents, but some creativity can 
                        get around this. Single parents could take their 
                        child(ren) with them as they babysit, or have the 
                        child(ren) brought to them instead. For simplicity 
                        and control, clubs are kept to a reasonable size – 
                        usually with a maximum of 20 families. Some clubs will 
                        have an annual administrative fee or will expect members 
                        to rotate the chore of record keeping (ie recording who 
                        has done how many hours.) Consider 
                        starting your own club with neighbours, parents from 
                        Mums group/kinder/school/ sports clubs and people you 
                        know at the park. Otherwise, clubs may be advertised on 
                        community noticeboards, through your council or library, 
                        or ask at community centres/neighbourhood houses.   Tash Hughes is 
                        the owner of Word Constructions and assists businesses 
                        in preparing all written documentation and web site 
                        content. Tash also writes parenting and business articles for 
                        inclusion in newsletter and web sites. |